Thursday, March 31, 2011

Life and its Changes

“Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass… It’s about learning to dance in the rain.”

You might be wondering where I have got to and why I am suddenly not blogging as much as I used to.

In one of my previous posts, I alluded to changes happening in my life – the biggest change being that my boyfriend and I broke up after 5 and a half years and I landed up moving back home. I am not one for change, so this has been a rather large adjustment and blogging seems to remind me too much of my “previous life” that I have been finding it hard to get back into.

"Everything in life happens for a reason.”

The Food Bloggers Indaba has probably had the most profound effect on me this year and these are a few memorable moments for me from the day: (Colleen outshone by creating an excellent day for us all! Thank you, thank you, thank you!)

• Nerves almost got the better of me at the thought of meeting the people behind the blogs that I had held in the utmost regard. This was until I saw Tandy’s face beaming at me from behind the registration desk and I knew everything was going to be ok.

• As I sat at a my chosen table I was amazed to notice that it was filled with such highly esteemed people including Abigail Donnelly, Editor of Eat Out Magazine, Anelde Greeff, Eat In Magazine, Bernadette le Roux, writer and Linda Harding from the blog Squashed Tomato. Fate had brought me to this table, to be close to the people that I aspire most to be like in the food world.

• Jeanne Horak-Druiff from Cooksister proved to be a witty and thoroughly entertaining MC and her talk entitled “Getting started, keeping going, getting good – 10 tips for bloggers” was beneficial and inspiring on so many levels. One of the points that stuck in my mind was the question, “Are you a cook who writes or a writer who cooks” – I have come to realize that I am definitely a writer who cooks.

Jane Anne Hobbs’ talk on recipe development and writing was thought provoking and interspersed with quirky comments and side splitting laughs.

• While Michael Olivier’s useful wine tasting was an amazing journey into the flavours of wine.

• And Nina Timm and Sam Linsell’s photography workshop helped me immensely in improving my camera technique.

As I stood on the deck of the photography workshop looking out to the sea, with the breeze in my hair and the happy chatter of the other participants behind me; something stirred within me – Cape Town was where I was meant to be.

The excitement that I felt for this blogger’s conference and the fact that I saw it as a step closer to my destiny (A cliché maybe, but all clichés are based on truth) culminated in my decision to move to Cape Town.

I will start my new journey on the 22 April 2011.

“Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.”

While I was making all the plans for my big move to Cape Town, I received an e-mail from CLEO Magazine asking if they could do a feature on my blog for their June edition. I was over the moon! My photo shoot was yesterday and I loved every moment of it! I could definitely get used to this :-)

“There are many things in life that will catch your eye, but only a few will catch your heart… pursue those.”

Writing and food are my passions – nothing brings me as much joy as when I am writing and cooking. A calm comes over me and I feel like I am home – no matter where I am.

I hope Cape Town provides me with the platform that I have been searching for and I look forward to getting to know all of my fellow bloggers on a much more personal level. I’d love nothing more than to have you all over for dinner sometime. :-)

“The best things in life are free.”

I know that the friendships I make along the way will stay with me for the rest of my life.

“Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you’re gonna get.”

So here is to the new chapter in my journey of life – I hope it is filled with many occasions to be celebrated!

Photos were taken at the Indaba


  1. How the heck did I miss you at the FBI2011? Anyway, all the best for the new beginning - I'm sure you're going to love Cape Town!

  2. It was so wonderful meeting you at FBI2011 and was just as much an honour to meet the face behind this amazing blog! You sound like such a strong girl and I truly think Cape Town is going to love you as much as you love it. Congrats on the CLEO feature, that is fabulous!! Let me know when it's published! Best of luck and hope to see you soon!